Sex

March 17th, 2008 by mongooseandbirds

Yes……thats rite folks im back! And with a fire to shed some light on some disturbing social ills. Im bringing thunder and lightning bolt to awaken you all. Something that is for your own good.

So what do u get/think/feel when u hear the word sex? Lust? positions? Condoms? Babies? Partners? Gf/Bf? Bgr? Pleasure? Fun? One nite stand? Deceit? Lies? Perverts? Filthiness?

Tell u honestly sex is being really downgraded to a level where it is not even valued as is should be. Its like trash. Go ahead and shoot me but im not lying and u cant deny it. And this is especially from UNMARRIED couples. Cohabiting partners or ppl doing "one night stands". U wana knw why i dare say it? Go and ask 10 couples and then 10 guys n girls in the world, in Malaysia and even in KL. Chances are about half of them or even MORE have had premarital sex. One way or another. homosexuals. bisexuals. bf/gf. hotels.

U can argue sex is fun and pleasurable. It is. NO doubt. Thats Gods creation and  God creates for us to enjoy His wonders. Sex is wonderful. Even to me it is a great thing. But u know the sad thing? Its like sex is a seller item. A best seller. U pay and u get it. U can get it anywhere in any "retail" store. It is no longer a personal treasure. It has become TRASH! And Gods creations are NEVER trash! Its a safe keep of the heart. A TRUSTWORTHY and TRUSTABLE thing.

Partners out there…….how would u like the idea that the other half u are now with might not be pure before? U dont care u say? Then when u get married and then lets hear u say the same thing. Not same situation? yes……true….but coz of all that "fun" u had earlier and let all out on others………..can u assure me that ur spouse and u are going to say "I really enjoyed"? "it was wonderful"?  And u gona be with your spouse for at least 50 years…………how sure are u? U really can assure u will have an intimate and pleasurable sex life? For at least 30 years? KNowing that u have done it seen it been there feel it know it before marriage. U will get bored of it. And u will see it as no fun anymore.

Trust me we humans are a very predictable lot. If u get the cheat codes for a game before u play and then play it isnt to challenging and fun anymore rite? There wont be the WOW factor. U kill the game. And u have sex before marriage. U stole the cheat codes to find out wat sex is. Then u get married. U KILLED sex. U may not believe me. But this is a very true thing.

Sex is something meant for those who have committed the lifelong agreement of marriage. The Covenant of eternity between a MAN and WOMAN. NO OTHER!

For God created man in His own image; male and female He created them - Genesis 1:27

So a man Will leave his father and mother and be joined with his wife and they shall be one flesh - Genesis 2:24

It is very obvious God did not create a MONOGENDER world. He created man and woman for a purpose : to live together. To multiply. That was His purpose. Adam and Eve; gentleman and lady. GOd certainly did not have homosexuals an bisexuals in His mind because that is SIN. God already said a man is to be united with his wife. NO ARGUEMEntS. That is final. There is no excuse. And the sad thing? The world has sinned against this. And we need to realise it is not Gods fault.

The purpose of sex is :

To have an intimate relation of emotions
To edify the spirit and strengthen the bond of husband and wife
To express love and TRUST
To please one another in the most trustworthy and most secret of ways (its for u n ur spouse only! That is what makes it so valuable and not for others to TOUCH or SEE)
To make babies (above all)

If u dont plan to fulfill even ONE of the above then u are not even ready to take responsibility for sex.

NOw what has all this have to be connected with?

Answer is : your own life and your eternity. your own happiness your own pride. your greed your lust. your responsibility and your trustworthiness.

If you plan to be husbands and wives, you have to be totally accountable for your actions and be totally transparent about with other. Or else u will have a marriage that is not only dull but also deprived of love.

I pray you all will awaken from your sleep. Your eyes which were blind before open and see the truth. Dont go on sinning anymore. You will regret CHOOSING this road. And u will face condemnation as the city of Sodom and Gomorah were rained with burning fire stone and sulphur which destroyed everyone. For God was angry and cannot tolerate such sins. He is loving but sin has no room love and the people that turn their backs on God and mock His name will be deemed to enter hell. God has patience but it is not forever. This is because Judgement Day is coming where He will be angry at those who make Him angry but loving to those who have loved Him and loved the people of the world, YOU.

Why i bother to tell u ppl abt this? Like im being nosy? Im not. Im concerned about you. Im worried to see u face God. What will u tell Him? If u lie before Him tats a ticket to hell straight away. The fact God cares about me and everyone is why i care. If God never showed me His love for others and for ME, i would not be bothered about sinners at all.

God Bless Your souls.

He’s been calling you for a very long time to go home to Him. And He will keep calling.

At The Cross

November 18th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

Oh Lord You’ve searched me
You know my way
Even when I fail You
I know You love me

Your holy presence
Surrounding me
In every season
I know You love me
I know You love me

You go before me
You shield my way
Your hand upholds me
I know You love me

And when the earth fades
Falls from my eyes
And You stand before me
I know You love me
I know You love me

At the cross I bow my knee
Where your blood was shed for me
There’s no greater love than this
You have overcome the grave
Your glory fills the highest place
What can separate me now?

You tore the veil

You made a way

When You said that it is done

John 11:25

November 16th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

Jesus said "I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in Me will live even though he dies".

I Believe

November 16th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds


I heard story just the other day,
About man who gave his life away for me
Complicated yet it seems so clear
If I open up my heart, it be so near to me
I believe in you
I believe in you

I heard story just the other day,
About man who gave his life away for me
Complicated yet seems so clear
If I open up my heart, it be so near to me

I believe in you
I believe in you
I believe in you
I believe your word as set me free
with all that I am
I will live my life for you
I believe

I read a story just the other day
About the way you healed blind man, made him say
Here I stand crying out to you
all i need is faith to see a miracle in me

I believe in you
I believe in you
I believe in you
I believe your word as set me free
with all that I am
I will live my life for you

I believe in you
I believe in you
I believe your word as set me free
with all that I am
I will live my life for you

I believe in
I believe in
I believe in you

I believe in
I believe in
I believe in you

Its not about you, its about Him

November 13th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

Why Him again? LOL. Simple.

Ask yourself this question : What is my purpose on earth?

Can u give YOURSELF the answer? Can you be definitely sure that what you think your purpose is IS what it is?

You cant. You can never be sure what your purpose is even you think deeply within ur own mind. How come? Simple.

YOU did not create YOURSELF, therefore you dont know your purpose.

An inventor creates or invents something with a purpose. So we did not create ourselves how can we know our real purpose? Im not talking about eat sleep and multiply. Im talking big here.

We always look at ourselves. Self focus self centered. My ambition, my career, my dreams. Its nothing wrong. But that is not the center or purpose of your life. U may succeed and have fulfilled  your goals and dreams but if you missed your purpose in life, it isnt much of a purposeful life either. You will still feel something empty.

Which brings me back to Him, God the Creator. He created you and me therefore He knows our purpose. So how do we know our purpose? ASK GOD! God made you for a purpose , NOT God was made for your purpose!

The very source of your life was from Him in the beginning. 

Still wondering why Him?

Until you know His purpose for your life and tat you were made by Him and for Him, life will always seem meaningless and pointless to you. Until you fully understand this, you will be always wandering in the dessert alone thirsty and lost. Until you stop assuming and believing by your own view of life and rather look at Gods plans realizing the more important TRUTH that God is everything you need, you will not have a purposeful life.

Life lived purposefully is more meaningful.

Think about it. What is your purpose.

Life without God is meaningless.

If you were once in the dark about your purpose life, now is the best time to walk into the light.

The Most Important Relationship

November 11th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

Source and read from the book written by Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven Life on chapter 12 - Developing your friendship with God.

Who is more important? Me? friends? family? bf? gf? or God?

You are as close to anyone of us as u CHOOSE to. Your walk and friendship with anyone of us is determined by your obedience, faithfulness, frankness,  disclosure and honesty.

Am i important? no coz i dont last forever here on earth and i cannot give u everything.
Parents and friends? No, they can guarantee u everthing.
Bf/gf? No. They cant guarantee you eternal happiness.
God? YES.

Being friends with God is the most important relationship. Why? He fills all the missing holes from above. Why is He important? U are going to be either in Hell or Heaven and He will choose it base on whether YOU are his friend or foe. So should u get to know God and be His friend? YES

What does it take to be Gods friend? Perfection? No, coz no one is perfect. If tat was Gods requirement we all will be in hell. So what is it He requires?

YOUR obedience, faithfulness, frankness, disclosure and honesty.

IF YOU say God is unfair or giving you a hard time, consider this : He wants u to rant and make noise and be totally OPEN to Him about HOW you feel. Dont hold back. Expressing yourself is the next step to know how God works. You just may get more than u asked for.

YOU ARE AS CLOSE TO HIM AS U CHOOOSE.

The closest of friends share the most intimate and private and most frank of things. God only listens and shares YOUR things with Him. He doesnt tell anyone. He is your best confidant.  Secret Keeper.  Listener. 

God doesnt care MUCH AT ALL about how well u pray. How long u fast. How well u sing. How often u go to church.  He cares how close YOU are to Him.

We fear and obey God not because of duty, religion, obligation or compulsion. Friendship NEVER works that way. We obey out of love and care because we know he is a friend. Non Christians will think its religion and obligation. Christianity was never a religion in the first place. It began at the very beginning as a relationship with Adam and Eve. Out of pure love and friendship and fellowship.

We obey because God is our friend yet He is not our equal but our Higher Authority.  He demands nothing more than our friendship and love yet also our obedience.  And we gladly obey out of love.

Wives, YOU obey your husbands out of love and know what they tell you to do is of good and love.

Girlfriends, YOU obey your boyfriends because you love them.

Sons and daughters, you obey your parents and teachers because they are right and they want the best for you.

Friends, YOU obey your friends in the name of friendship.

Therefore,

We OBEY God as we do the same as all the above. Not fear, religion or obligation.
But love, obedience, frankness, faithfulness, trust, and friendship.

You are as close to God as you choose to be.

It is a friendship that will be forever until you carry it into heaven forever.

Choose

What God has to say………..

September 9th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

                         
                        
                        

Alright, so you don’t believe in me. (But what if you’re wrong?)
God.

Don’t forget your umbrella. I might water the plants today.
God.

Its not the end of the world. Not until I say so, anyway.
God.

If you missed the sunrise I made for you today, never mind. I’ll make you another one tomorrow.
God.

How can you possibly be a self-made man? I specifically recall creating you.
God.

Nietzche is dead.
God.

I was thinking of making the world black and white. Then I thought Naaah.
God.

How can you call yourself a free thinker when you can’t even accept the possibility of my existence?
God.

If you think Mona Lisa is stunning, you should look at my masterpiece. Look in the Mirror.
God.

Please don’t drink and drive. You’re not quite ready to meet me.
God.

When you’re weary, feeling small. When tears are in your eyes, I will dry them all. Simon and Garfunkel. Ditto.
God.

I think you’re the most beautiful person in the world. OK, I’m biased.
God.

What do I have to do to get your attention? Take out an ad in the newspaper?
God.

Earthlings, don’t treat me like an alien.
God.

Let’s meet at my house Sunday before the game.
God

C’mon over and bring the kids.
God

What part of "Thou Shalt Not…" didn’t you understand?
God

We need to talk.
God

Keep using my name in vain, I’ll make rush hour longer.
God

Loved the wedding, invite me to the marriage.
God

That "Love Thy Neighbor" thing… I meant it.
God

I love you and you and you and you and…
God

Will the road you’re on get you to my place?
God

Follow me.
God

Big bang theory, you’ve got to be kidding.
God

My way is the highway.
God

Need directions?
God

You think it’s hot here?
God

Have you read my #1 best seller? There will be a test.
God

Do you have any idea where you’re going?
God

Don’t make me come down there.
God

Odd Newspaper Headlines From Around the World

September 9th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

Include your children when baking cookies

Something went wrong in jet crash

Experts says police begin campaign to run down jaywalkers

Safety experts say that school bus passengers should be belted

Drunk gets nine months in violin case

Survivor of Siamese twins joins parents

Miners refuse to work after death

Juvenile Court to try shooting defendant

Two Soviet ships collide, one dies

Red tape holds up new bridge

Astronaut takes blame for gas in spacecraft

Kids make nutritious snacks

Man minus ear waives hearing

TOP TEN SIGNS YOU MAY NOT BE READING YOUR BIBLE ENOUGH

September 9th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

10) The Preacher announces the sermon is from Galatians … and you check the table of contents.
9) You think Abraham, Isaac & Jacob may have had a few hit songs during the 60’s.
8) You open to the Gospel of Luke and a WWII Savings Bond falls out.
7) Your favorite Old Testament Patriarch is Hercules.
6) A small family of woodchucks has taken up residence in the Psalms of your Bible.
5) You become frustrated because Charlton Heston isn’t listed in either the Concordance or the Table of Contents.
4) Catching the kids reading the Song of Solomon, you demand: "Who gave you this stuff?"
3) You think the Minor Prophets worked in the quarries.
2) You keep falling for it every time when Pastor tells you to turn to First Condominiums.
And the number one sign you may not be reading your Bible enough:
1) The kids keep asking too many questions about your usual bedtime story: "Jonah the Shepherd Boy and His Ark of Many Colors."

Announcement

September 7th, 2007 by mongooseandbirds

Friends, countrymen and Germans……lend me your ears

Actually wat i want to tell is i have 2 blogs and i hope all of u are aware of it coz sometimes i blog here n i blog there

So do pay a visit to : http://crazydarren.blogspot.com/

Plz Plz Plz do visit it…………

Tq!!!